Importance of Education In The Kids And Teens (Part 2)

Between Home and School

In turn, the works of someone that will definitely come to the level of stabilization. What did he do it symbolizes the identity and personality. And one part of the personality is there a moral nature. Examples such as honest and trustworthy nature. Moral properties in a private establishment that leads to society, because in fact the person is a form of community or social beings.

Effect of the first received by a child in her life, is the influence of figures that are around him. In their home environment, is the father and
family. When growing up a little. he started hanging out with kids age or older peers a little from it. Then came his turn, he will mingle and get to know the figure of the teacher. At this age, usually a child can not consider all things and has not been able to determine the targets you want to do something. He is conducting activities in accordance with the wishes of his soul nature. And new figures bring the influence of these and is considered the most prominent figure for himself and also for all children, is the figure of the teacher or instructor. For children, who are before them was a teacher. Teachers who he knew from early morning until noon. Teachers who teach them. The teacher was the one who reminded when they are wrong road. Gurulah who became the priest prays for them when it comes time. No exaggeration to say that a teacher really master them. At age who are still small children is like a dough that is easy to shape into anything.

One thing that reinforces that children were affected by the figure of the teacher, is the utterance "Uqbah ibn Abu Sufyan" to a teacher who was entrusted with the education his son-son, as quoted by "Al-Jahizh" following
this,

"Before you edify son-son, you should first fix its own character. You see their eyes bound with your eyes. Something that good according to them is what you think is good, and bad things they think about what you think is bad.


Constraints Faced by Parents and Educators

Perhaps one very important thing that needs to be reminded to parents and educators is that the road that lies ahead of them is not seamless. There are several major obstacles facing them. The constraints they face and should be able to conquer them, among others, are as follows:

The first obstacle is in the form of distinctive features and characteristics of adolescents who tend to be stubborn and dare to oppose the direction of father and teacher. In the name of freedom, they dare to debate and argue. especially in matters of religion until the threshold doubts. This fact obviously requires a lot of patience, politeness and attitude of the father's chest field and Educators

The second constraint is no less dangerous than the first constraint above, is the persistence of the enemies of Islam and the enemy of the Muslims to withdraw our sons to keep away from religion, the noble values ​​and noble traditions. In his efforts were, they use different instruments that can anesthetize your heart and feelings of our sons. With very clever they offered the concept of freedom and independence of thought and opinion. Of course the same concept as the desired coincidence these teens because it is well-suited to the needs of his soul that tends'm looking for self-identity with their spontaneous welcome. It's like a word poet.

"One will be able to persuade someone If in accordance with the desire in his heart"

Given the religious mind and the teens were still relatively empty, with not necessarily swallow that poison them for granted. It's like the words of a poet,

"The love that came to me before I know love And my heart is still lonely It immediately receive it"

The third obstacle that must be faced by parents and educators is a pretty amazing advancements in the field of the means of information and communication in the form of broadcast media, media publishing and television media. It was difficult if not impossible-called stem the flow effect of this progress into the mind and soul of our sons. One The only defense is fundamentally unreliable. is self defense and a strong will, lately. video devices, VCD, Internet, etc. is a form major threats to our sons and son in the field of religion, culture and education. We do not deceive ourselves justified because rely on the device monitoring responsibility in government. Supervision of any nature in this world would not exist that can prevent and stop the culture war being waged attacks from outside and from within it, one chip alone VCD cassettes for example, was able to influence the thought patterns of behavior, attitude and mentality of a child, was only just an example so that we know that the true control can only be realized from within ourselves. That is, we must have the will and strong determination to face the danger of damaging the delicate entering our homes.

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